Nowadays the sexual assault and sexual abuse become the hottest news in Indonesia. In one month there are 4 cases about sexual abuse that pervade the people attention, the last case is an incident that happend to Eno Fariah (18). In indoensia sexual abuse and sex assault not only happened to adult person, but also happened to the children. 50% sexual abuse and sexual assault cases in Indonesia happened to the children. This is the reason why now the goverment and some people that care about this set of problem, try to solve it and do everything to decrease the sexual abuse and sexual assault that happened to the children.
The definition of sexual abuse it self is any sexual act or attempt to obtain a sexual act by violence or coercion. Sexual abuse and sexual assault are a serious public health problem and has a profound short or long term impact on physical and mental health. It can be happen because of two factors there are internal and external factor and the eksternal factor take most of it.
First for the external factor is from the environmental side that have a correlation with the family guidance. In Bandung, a boy named Deden (28) has 128.000 porn video for sale. The price is Rp 30.000 until Rp 800.000. The most expensive one (Rp 800.000) is the porn video that done by a child. Still in Bandung, most of the whore in Bandung is a Junior and Senior High School student, and the payment from the “consumer” is an internet quota. From the research that done by some researcher in Indonesia, 51% of 9 years old child saw their first porn video in their home. If we asked about “where are their parents?” the answer will be “sleeping”. Some of the children that ever saw a porn video, they got that video from their parents or their brother room. The situation and condition like this should be stop because when the parents still in the sinism way, their children will use the time to find something new like try to browse porn film, find the other source to get the porn thing, like from the comic, music video clip, do a thing like in the film, and any other else.
Beside the “sleeping” that done by several parents, sometime some parents fight and do an abuse in front of their children. Firstly they will think that it still okay and there is no serious effect for their child, but the psychological system from the children will be keep the fight in their mind and maybe someday he or she will do the same thing. Not only from their parents, a child that loved to see a cartoon movies that contain of violence like “ultra man” , “naruto” , and “power ranger” have a bigger opportunities to figuring the figure from the cartoon and do the violence same with the cartoon too. This is the reason why nowadays sexual abuse and sexual assault are often happened to the children in our country. Lack of parental guidance, violance in the movie and many other things from the environment.
Second, the internal factor like reverenge, feel lonely, and the other feeling that depressed the mental of the children also influence the sexual abuse and sexual assault. A child that ever saw their parents fight always keep it in their mind and it makes the children have a reverenge feeling with the parents. When the children have no good religion and have no people to help them to release his or her reverange, it can be the factor why the sexual abuse can be happened to the children. A child that ever had a sexual assalut before also have the opportunities to be a person that do an sexual assault, because they have a reverenge and they try to make the other people feel what they ever felt before. Sometimes when a child think that he or she have no one to share their problem and their imagination about a sexual problem, they try to find it be their self and it can make them find a wrong way and decide something bad like doing a sexual assault and sexual abuse when they are grows up.
So now lets fix this problem from the smaller factor that can cause the sexual abuse and sexual assault to our children in our country, Indonesia.
Esterika dk 1420302186
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